Buying
your Wedding Gown should be absolutely the most fun
of all your
wedding planning. Here are some tips for making it
a memorable and pleasant experience to look back on.
Go
to a store where you feel comfortable. If you don't
feel like you
are being treated well, or are unhappy with the selection,
go elsewhere.
Don't try on any dresses if you wouldn't buy one there.
This is your time to feel like a Queen!
Don't go shopping if you aren't feeling well. If you
are bloated,
sunburned, or in any way feel ugly or uncomfortable,
you won't feel as
beautiful as you should.
Take someone with you, but not a small army, and never
any children.
They get bored instantly, and will make you crazy,
since they really
shouldn't touch anything in the store.
Minimize or don’t wear any make-up, it will
get on the gowns you try
on. Also, remove jewelry since the satins and silks
used for Bridal dresses are very delicate, and will
snag or damage easily. Once you purchase your gown,
remember these things for fittings as well.
Bridal Gown sizes run small. Don't think about the
size, but the fit.
Order the size you are now, don't expect to lose a
lot of weight. If you do lose weight, you can always
have the gown taken in.
Expect to have alterations done. Your dress should
fit perfectly and
very few women are a perfect size, and 5'9" tall.
Buying separates can
minimizes this problem. Remember, you can’t
have alterations done until you have the shoes, slip
(if you are wearing a full skirt) and bra you will
be wearing with your dress.
Try on different styles. Be open to possibilities.
You may discover
that the perfect gown is different from what you had
imagined.
Try to be realistic. You may have been dreaming of
your gown since you were a little girl. Your dress
should be fantastic and make you feel
beautiful, but don't have unrealistic expectations.
Start early! Most gowns take several weeks to arrive,
and some
manufacturers can take months. Also consider buying
a gown off-the-rack. These are usually discounted
and can be altered to fit.
When figuring your dress in your budget, don't forget
accessories and
alterations.
Buy your gown first, and then match it when purchasing
your headpiece, veil and accessories.
Accentuate your best features and camouflage flaws.
Choose a dress that you are comfortable in, because
you will be wearing it for a several hours. Keep that
in mind with your shoes too - break them in beforehand.
It is hard to have fun when your feet hurt!
You don't have to buy the first dress you find that
you like. Visit
several shops and be sure before you place your order
since your deposit is non-refundable. Most shops require
half down as a deposit.
Have fun trying on several dresses before making your
choice, but don't look forever. You can’t move
on to other decisions such as bridesmaids’ and
flower girl dresses until you select your gown. Besides,
if you look too long, you will start to get confused
by too many choices.
Your gown sets the mood for your wedding, whether
it will be formal,
semi formal, traditional, etc. Your gown should reflect
the style and
formality you intend to have for your wedding.
Once you are sure you have found the perfect gown,
buy it! Bargain
hunting is usually frustrating and futile. Avoid buying
from the internet,
since you can't see what you are getting, and have
no retail location where you can try the dress on
or come back to with any problems.
If you plan to have your gown custom made, be aware
that it will
usually cost more and will require more time for fittings.
There are so many beautiful gowns out there, you should
be able to find one that is perfect for you. You can
always alter a gown too, but keep it simple like changing
sleeves, or a bow. Don't try to redesign the whole
dress.
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